It is hard to go on social media and not get jealous. Most people only post the good parts of their lives on social media which makes their lives seem better than they actually are. When I am struggling, it is hard to go on social media because it makes me feel so alone and I feel like that I am the only one struggling. Yes, I know other people have their own problems but it is hard to remember that when everyone else looks and seems so happy. When I see my peers graduate from grad school, get married, have kids, get a promotion, or any other major accomplishment or life event, I am happy for them but also jealous because I am not doing those things when it seems like I should be. I have to keep reminding myself that I am right where I need to be in life.
It is hard to remind myself of all the positive things going on in my life while I am on social media. I constantly compare myself to others even though it is unhealthy to do so. Because of the unhealthy image of people that is shown on social media, I try to be completely honest about myself on all of my accounts. Being real and honest online takes a lot of courage because there are parts of our lives that are not exactly picture perfect. I respect those who are honest and open online. Even, I am guilty of curating the best possible version of myself online. I often do not show the negative parts of my life because I am afraid of what other people will think of me even though, their opinions should not matter. Social media comparison is an easy trap to fall into and is difficult to climb back out of. Just remember you are where you need to be in life. You are amazing.
Add comment
Comments